10 THINGS I DO WHEN I LIKE A GIRL (10 THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T DO)

SO IT IS THE HOLIDAYS!!!! SO I SHALL BLOG MOREEEEE since my holidays are always so boring!!

If you are looking for tips and advice on how to get a girl to like you, this is not the place and the direct opposite of where you want to be.

 But at least you would know what you shouldn't do to get a girl to like you.
So this is from my experience and view so maybe some people especially the shy guys would understand.

1. i become shy 

From a shy person, this is normal but what i am saying is especially shy when you see the girl you like.

It is like when you are with your friends you ain't shy but when you are with the person you like, you totally changed to a shy person even when you are trying your best not to. And that is what i will become even no matter how much i want to talk to the person i like and it isn't a good thing. i wish i could at least be her close friend or bestfriend.

2. i become nervous

You know the feeling when a intimidating person or presenting in a big event, that is the feeling i get when i am trying to talk to the girl i like. Pretty much, i will become so nervous that my mind will go blank and have no idea what to say and do while trying not to show that i am nervous. The feeling is totally terrible.

3. i become insecure 

I think that this is the most normal for everyone, especially when you meet someone you like and you would think about how she/he thinks about you and you would over-think a lot. Example thinking if you are handsome/pretty enough, funny enough, outgoing enough and friendly enough, this are the main reason and factors on why i can't be myself.

4. i become weird and awkward

When i meet the person i like and my mind goes blank, i would have no idea how to start a conversation or create a topic. And that's when i would become weird and awkward trying to think of a topic and create something that would spark something out. Sometimes small accidents while being weird could create topics or make them laugh but accidents rarely happens. And that is why i can become bery weird and awkward. 

5. i don't confess

And then it comes down to this where i have never confess before, mainly i am always afraid of rejection. And i am talking about all kinds of rejection, like asking people out or ask people down to play basketball. And because of that, i pretty much don't ask anyone anything (which is a bad thing) and this made it seems like i don't take initiative. One of the  most common reasons is that i am afraid that things would change for the worst and maybe the girl i like would ignore me. There are always reasons at the back so don't be to quick to judge people being arrogant and everything.

6. Not be myself

So i can be myself with many of my female friends and classmates, and my besties and sisters in class. I wish i could be like that especially to the person i like because that person i like probably won't ever see my true self because i am like wearing a mask around her. My sisters in class always tell me to be myself, like treat others the way i treat them. But it isn't easy, it is like i am never awkward with my sisters in class and i can always be myself, like the annoying crazy me.

7. No one will know who i like

No one would ever know who i like, let alone the person i like. Even though i have close friends and sisters, i wouldn't tell them who i like even when they don't know them. All they know is that i like someone and that is all. I have no idea why but i am afraid of letting anyone know who i like (even when it is perfectly normal), i still have that PRIMARY SCHOOL mindset where a guy likes a girl and everyone is like "EEEEE, you like her right?" and then the guy would be like "NONONONO". Well that was good childhood times and it seems like i am pretty much still stuck in the past. But this would lead many people around you into confusion as well as maybe your friends would try and guess who you like and you would be like "no, no, no" FEEEL ME?!

8. i am afraid to chase the girl i like

Chasing a girl is problematic for me because i wouldn't want anyone to know and even the girl know that i like her. i wouldn't do anything for her even when i really wanted to. Which is also a very bad thing, until i become so careful that i think i treat that person less than a friend because i am afraid anyone would suspect and know about it. But still i think i am very immature in that sense.

9. Afraid to compliment her

You know where there are times where the girl you like, dress so nicely or smells nice or have very nice hair. And that is the time where you would want to communicate to her and compliment her. But for me, i am so afraid that she would get creep out or something if i compliment her or maybe she would feel awkward about it and then create a weird and awkward situation (which i hate awkward so much). i wish that awkwardness never existed

10. Terrible at being funny when i want to

So according to many girls, girls like funny guys and everything. And that wouldn't go well for a shy, nervous, awkward guy that wants to try to be funny to the girl he likes. Sometimes i think so much about how to phrase the joke, be careful with words and not to offend anyone, that's when the jokes is either not funny or not understandable. 

It seems that the only one that would laugh at my joke is myself.

So this are the 10 THINGS I DO and YOU SHOULDN'T DO AND BE when you like a girl. i hope you have enjoyed reading my view and side of this from a very NOT outgoing person. So if you actually have someone you like, don't be like me and try your best to be yourself and do the opposite of what i do. And also for the girls, don't lower your expectations of a good guy because if the girls lower their expectations, more and more boys will become bad and you wouldn't want that to happen because there are plenty of jerks around already.